I know the title may be inflammatory to some, so I'll start by saying I love the destiny community and usually have no issues.
Anytime I raid with a team that's over 50% strangers I always wind up getting kicked. Regardless of my K/d, light, dps or general wipe-causing--blam!-ups I'm always the one kicked.
Am I being paranoid? Or am I being penalized for bing a girl?
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According to your grimoire you have zero Kings Fall completions. So it's probably because you're not very good at raiding. I play with plenty of females and they can all hold their own, just a good as the rest of us.