I hate when players say "abuse is just part of gaming, get over it". No it's part of your way of gaming, not mine. If someone said that at a football match or a workplace it wouldn't be ok. It's just that gamers get to hide behind that same perceived anonymity and crowd mentality that was prevelant at football matches in the 80s and 90s. Just because you accept the reality you are presented with doesn't mean it's right; defy convention, break the mould and stop being a douche just because you are surrounded by other douches. It's lazy and weak.