Ok, so I came home this afternoon to find a knife pinned on a board, with a note saying, 'Clean up after yourself do the dishes, it smells'. I've been at school everyday, and my housemate (which is my best friend) has no job, but has contributed to shopping, even though he's a tight arse and is complaining about dishes that haven't been done, when half of them were his. He could of easily texted me instead, which would have been nicer, or just done them himself and said something to us. For the past few weeks I've had a really bad in sinus infection, and ive had to force myself to do things, which makes it hard to sometimes do housework. Just the whole leaving a note behind, with a knife through it ..I hate it.. I find it very crude and disrespectful. Does anyone feel the same?