Should I delay my Marriage for Destiny launch? I am getting married on September 9, and I can't decide to delay the marriage until October 1st in order for me to get my Destiny addiction fixed. Because the soon to be wife said, once she moves in the console has to go or she goes. Help me decide people!!!!!!!
UPDATE: I would like to thank everyone who participated in voting.
DECISION: I DECIDED TO MARRY AND GIVE LESS TIME TOWARDS GAMING. THE MCAT IS COMING SOON AND MARRIAGE!!!!!!!
THANK YOU ALL!!!!
LASTLY, ALL YOU MOFOS JUST GOT TROLLED!!!!
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8 OdpowiedziIn a word - no. There are far more important things in life than playing a game for a few weeks. Your wedding day should be one of the happiest/significant of your life. That said, if gaming (in general) is one of your favorite hobbies, and your fiancee absolutely cannot stand it to the point of utterly refusing to compromise in any way, I'd honestly say that's a fairly fundamental incompatibility between the two of you. My wife (I got married 3 weeks ago) is by no stretch of the imagination a hardcore gamer, but knows that it is one of my favorite hobbies, and (rightfully) never bugs me about it - nor do I bug her about any of her at-home hobbies (she's a tv show box set junkie - she just watched 5 seasons of Chuck over the last few months). Lately she's actually been giving it a go herself - she reckons Destiny will be the first full game she wants to get into, and has been 'practicing' her FPS skills (read: learning not to look at sky every time somebody fires at her) by playing Wolfenstein: The New Order over the last few weeks. All things in moderation - you should probably have a chat to her about it...
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1 OdpowiedźSometimes you gotta roll the hard six.
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Dont delay the marriage make it sooner either way u will be missing the same ammount of time so make it sooner that way u miss none of it
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5 OdpowiedziHAVE A DESTINY THEMED MARRIAGE YOU ARE MISSING OUT ON A GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY
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1 OdpowiedźAre you a complete Blam-ing moron?
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1 OdpowiedźTell your wife the word COMPROMISE. If you don't have that, you won't last.
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2 OdpowiedziYou shouldn't have to change yourself... That being said, there is a line to be drawn on some topics BUT when it comes to simple things like gaming... You shouldn't have to change UNLESS you play constantly and ignore her and blah blah blah. Use common sense with the amount of time playing... If she just doesn't want you to have a console and won't change her mind, that's pretty questionable. There are bigger things to worry about. Get a game and play coop with her; my wife and I still play Gears of war among other games. Try that. But no, don't delay your wedding if you love her or else you really won't change her kind about gaming lol Well, I've had many beers and said way to much. Goof luck with that...
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I hate Ultimatums...
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Bitch where the console goes I go lol
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2 OdpowiedziIs everyone here stupid? I'm starting to think so..
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1 Odpowiedźnice trolling dude
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1 OdpowiedźComing to BNET for marriage advice is possibly the worst thing you can do.
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3 OdpowiedziSounds like your *fatchew* (whipped)
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I think marige is more important than the game you can stil play it after it
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1 OdpowiedźYou are not serious....
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3 OdpowiedziHahahaha. Dump the bitch if she's gonna exclude your hobbies from your life dude. My wife and I are huge gamers. Happiest I've ever been. When I bought my Xbox one, she rode in the backseat. And instead of getting mad, she decided she would start "warming up" for our bedroom/gaming activities.
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If she is going to try to change your hobbies she doesn't love you for who you are. I'd tell her to f off
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2 OdpowiedziEdytowany przez użytkownika RANGERMORRIS: 7/25/2014 5:58:36 AMLol keep the wedding date just don’t show up that will show her who the man of the house is lol.
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2 OdpowiedziOkay I don't think that it's right for her to give you an ultimatum like that, you should at try to compromise with her when it comes to that, like you won't play it as long and will still no matter what always give her you undivided attention but as for canceling your marriage for a game? Dude I know it's destiny and all but this is your marriage! Your love of your life!! You absolutely should not change your marriage date just for that, that would break her heart and her love for you should always be more important than any game and or anything for that matter. Make the right choice man, do this for her. You don't need to throw away your console you just need to hear her side and compromise, and definitely not change your marriage date, get married to the girl you think is the most beautiful outstanding perfect girl. Make the right choice man I'm rooting for you.
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Who has time for a wife when the City is in danger? ;D Regardless, congrats on finding a wife-to-be!
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Edytowany przez użytkownika flaming_axel-: 7/26/2014 4:55:28 PMA loved one puts you between her and a hard place? Keep it, and tell here your doing her a favor. Tell her years from now, she'll probably be all "you aren't the man I fell in love with," and this situation she is creating now will be the cause. Tell her that a happy life together should already be in the making just by being together. Any alteration and fabrications to that will not help. It could hurt. Tell her that ultimatums are something for evil scientists and ruthless masterminds to do. Then tell her that she is to beautiful to be evil and ruthless. If you fail at convincing her, then pester the **** out of her until she gives up on something in return. Make it something that will really grind her gears. An ultimatum party. Then wait a little bit after she gives up her thing, then bam. Give it right back, in her face. Tell her that your morals and love wouldn't cause yourself to hurt someone you love. Then get your system back, while she cries over how ****in awesome you are.
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2 OdpowiedziWTF? You're marrying someone that wont live in a house with a games console?
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5 OdpowiedziAnd you're marrying her why???? She must be extremely hot, puts out on command and makes a damn fine sandwich to give up your system.
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That is the stupidest thought. Sure fire way to not get married or get an early divorce.
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Sorry man :/ if your wife wants you to part from your console regardless then I say don't tempt yourself with the full game. I GUARANTEE you that when you get married after playing destiny for a month or so it will be a LOT harder to give up then if you hadnt played at all.
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Get laid? Or play video games? Why not do both!!