Sooo earlier I was in LFG looking for a group to get at least 7 wins in trials. I created a party and invited people, someone joined so I proceeded to greet them just so they would leave the party immediately after I spoke and it happened several times. Then I would join chats and simply say hi and BOOM I was getting kicked out.
My reasoning was that maybe they got a friend chat invite or people already had a 3rd before I joined. The answer was simple after I stayed in orbit wondering what the hell was wrong, these monkey brains knocked me strait out because they heard I am a woman!!! Like seriously what makes them think I cant hold my ground? Does the mic make me sound like a kid? Were their experiences with female gamers that bad I dont deserve a chance?
Time was against me so I changed tactics, bitch mode activated so in the description I wrote something among the lines of bad ass kick out girl looking for a group.....I wanted to kill the screen when I was getting lots of invites and messages it was embarrassing, thank goodness I got 2 normal people to play with.
I guess this must be why girls like to stay quiet, being afraid of being mocked or kick out of fireteams. I had to purposely put that I am female so at least people knew what to expect when they talk to me and hopefully stay.
Edit 1: im 21, my voice is not squeaky but I guess mic must not helping me portray that since my voice is not deep at all.
Its so dumb, how can I fix this issue?
Edit 2: A few things clear. This account belongs to my fiancé, destiny is my first person shooting game so im still not top dog. Judge me only on the hunter since that is the only character I play.
I play lots of pvp on the vita because im a masochist so I don't care about my K/D.
I have a good clan that has good people but they were offline or busy when I had time to play. I have been ignoring destiny since Disgaea 5 came out so yeah im rusty.
I can hold my own waaay better than before, got some wrecking ball recently so I feel good about that. Thanks for all the very kind replies, I would add most of you but my fiancé will delete so many random people he doesnt know since we like our clan lol.
Edit 3: Hellooo from the other siiiiide.
[b]To the salty people that have posted here I could care more about two poops than your negativity.[/b]
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1 OdpowiedźHonestly could care less if your a girl or guy straight gay or bi the whole point of the game is for it to be fun make some friends along the way and shoot the crap out of everything
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Anyone is free to add me for trials help. Don't really care if you're a chick or not, I'll play. Feel free to send me an inv if I'm on.
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2 OdpowiedziI read the edits, so I'll just add in that squeakers don't mean voice cracking per say so much as referring to kids in general, Boys under 12 can sound like girls. Not everyone has the maturity to play with a woman gamer, it's not always sexist though it's easier to use that as an excuse for insecurities. Dames of Destiny and Safe Gamers are worth looking into if you aren't being treated fairly
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I play trials every week. I don't go flawless every week nor do I have the ability to carry anyone but I do just love to play ToO and get the bounties done. Usually with random teams regardless of age or gender and it's kinda fun. Im on ps4
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1 OdpowiedźIf you're on Xbox my girlfriend and I will be running trials this weekend if you need a team
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1 OdpowiedźNo cause girls can't play video games [spoiler]hurr durr hurr[/spoiler]
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Could just be kids .. kinda shy in weird way.. just keep at it I'm sure you'll find a team.
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Add me at MrFatsz or KBOER93 I will play with you in trials. I do have other female friends that play destiny as well.
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I only know that sometimes women sound like younger kids and the other way around. Oh man, how often did I mixed that up... But thats still no valid reason to kick someone
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All the female i play with are better than me.
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I think women should be allowed to do what the f*ck they want. Who are we to say that women shouldn't enjoy playing games. Are we guys so afraid of getting our ass handed to us by a woman? In this game, we are all equal. Don't come here ranting about that women shouldn't be allowed for Trials or any other game (mode) . Doing so, you will create the unequal state of our current community which we desperately seek to abandon. So please, for the love of all, stop being so thirsty and let women enjoy gaming as much as we do.
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I would play with you
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Why do people even care. It's stupid
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I'm not spectacular but if you're ever looking for a fellow female guardian to partner up with hit me up. PS4 same tag.
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So, you have no evidence to support your statement, you quite literally said that you thought of the reason yourself. thankfully there are enough thirsty 12 year olds here to back you up.
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Is say they thought you were a kid
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5 Odpowiedzi*Tips Fedora* M'lady
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3 OdpowiedziDamn... That's messed up.... Like really.... All y'all salty ass bitch out there! Listen up! Airbody is aloud to play destiny. Judging someone by cover gender race etc is Grade A BullShit.... Y'all need to straighten up.... Ayye I'm up for trials. But on old gen. Specifically PS3. Same name. Mic. And pretty great/ (complete trash... Shhh..) At destiny. But I'm up for a hood trials
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1 OdpowiedźHope you get into a match vs 3x of the invites and smash them :) I would love to see the day a clan of Femmes made a clan; FemmeFatals & smash on the bigots who play this game. Just for the sake of it, who doesn't like playing whack'a'bigot anywho? ^.^
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1 OdpowiedźWake up (wake up)Grab a brush and put a little make-upHide the scars to fade away the shake-up (hide the scars to fade away the...)Why'd you leave the keys upon the table?Here you go create another fableYou wanted toGrab a brush and put a little makeupYou wanted toHide the scars to fade away the shake-upYou wanted toWhy'd you leave the keys upon the table?You wanted toI don't think you trustIn my self-righteous suicideI cry when angels deserve to dieWake up (wake up)Grab a brush and put a little make-upHide the scars to fade away the shake-up (hide the scars to fade away the...)Why'd you leave the keys upon the table?Here you go create another fableYou wanted toGrab a brush and put a little make-upYou wanted toHide the scars to fade away the shake-upYou wanted toWhy'd you leave the keys upon the table?You wanted toI don't think you trustIn my self-righteous suicideI cry when angels deserve to dieIn my self-righteous suicideI cry when angels deserve to dieFather, father, father, fatherFather, into your hands I commend my spiritFather, into your handsWhy have you forsaken me?In your eyes forsaken meIn your thoughts forsaken meIn your heart forsaken me, ohTrust in my self-righteous suicideI cry when angels deserve to dieIn my self-righteous suicideI cry when angels deserve to die
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1 OdpowiedźSays they dont care about their performance in PvP. Wants to do Trials. Logic?
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17 OdpowiedziNo one cares you're a girl gamer . We get it your Facebook friends don't like your statuses so you think you will infiltrate the guys club and come here for attention .. Nope.. Never. If you suck you suck woman or not. Also girls talk about dumb shit online and over react to being shot. It's annoying as hell
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11 OdpowiedziNo, they belong in the kitchen where it's safe for them
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2 OdpowiedziEdytowany przez użytkownika spamLEGENDS: 11/20/2015 9:01:35 AMAdmittedly, the mic can make women sound like teen boys. I made that assumption once. I guess I should have known though, since her tag started with "Ms"
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4 OdpowiedziWho cares? Just play the damn game.