Sooo earlier I was in LFG looking for a group to get at least 7 wins in trials. I created a party and invited people, someone joined so I proceeded to greet them just so they would leave the party immediately after I spoke and it happened several times. Then I would join chats and simply say hi and BOOM I was getting kicked out.
My reasoning was that maybe they got a friend chat invite or people already had a 3rd before I joined. The answer was simple after I stayed in orbit wondering what the hell was wrong, these monkey brains knocked me strait out because they heard I am a woman!!! Like seriously what makes them think I cant hold my ground? Does the mic make me sound like a kid? Were their experiences with female gamers that bad I dont deserve a chance?
Time was against me so I changed tactics, bitch mode activated so in the description I wrote something among the lines of bad ass kick out girl looking for a group.....I wanted to kill the screen when I was getting lots of invites and messages it was embarrassing, thank goodness I got 2 normal people to play with.
I guess this must be why girls like to stay quiet, being afraid of being mocked or kick out of fireteams. I had to purposely put that I am female so at least people knew what to expect when they talk to me and hopefully stay.
Edit 1: im 21, my voice is not squeaky but I guess mic must not helping me portray that since my voice is not deep at all.
Its so dumb, how can I fix this issue?
Edit 2: A few things clear. This account belongs to my fiancé, destiny is my first person shooting game so im still not top dog. Judge me only on the hunter since that is the only character I play.
I play lots of pvp on the vita because im a masochist so I don't care about my K/D.
I have a good clan that has good people but they were offline or busy when I had time to play. I have been ignoring destiny since Disgaea 5 came out so yeah im rusty.
I can hold my own waaay better than before, got some wrecking ball recently so I feel good about that. Thanks for all the very kind replies, I would add most of you but my fiancé will delete so many random people he doesnt know since we like our clan lol.
Edit 3: Hellooo from the other siiiiide.
[b]To the salty people that have posted here I could care more about two poops than your negativity.[/b]
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2 OdpowiedziNeed 2 ultra sweaty neck try hards for trials msg me for invite
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1 OdpowiedźThat sword block was funny. ...
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Played with a female in trials and it was whatever. Kinda got annoying since her man kept distracting her during Trials. She came in clutch when needed though.
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Dang that's really dumb. People like that are so dumb. Who cares if you're female why wouldn't they play? Shoot what console you on? Ill play trials with ya
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There is one woman in our crew and she wrecks. Trust, it's not that you are a woman, it is all about little boys with identity issues. Add me, will run with you any time. As will any member of my crew. Stupid little messed up boys
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Edytowany przez użytkownika SpaceJam (Adept): 11/22/2015 5:34:33 AMDoesn't matter what your gender is, people will still be A**holes.
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2 OdpowiedziIt actually doesn't matter if you are a girl. People will kick you no matter what if they are assholes so Buck up. I got kicked from a war priest CP because i did "too much damage" with my heavy. Stupid people will be stupid so stop trying to stop gender shit we don't need that.
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4 OdpowiedziDo you know what I like more than women? [spoiler]Knowledge[/spoiler]
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As long as your good, I don't think it matters to be honest.
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Edytowany przez użytkownika ZionDV__: 11/21/2015 5:28:23 AMNo! women should stay in their kitchen ... Omg why you post something like dat? we are not muslims and we live in 2015.
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Ignore those shits. Just find people who don't mind. In my experience people are way nicer on the ps platform. If you want we can play sometime.
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I don't know if it's because you're a girl but that k/d on your hunter though. [spoiler]disclaimer: I also suck at crucible [/spoiler]
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1 OdpowiedźI was kicked because I'm a girl so nobody wanted to play with me, so I told them I was a girl and they wanted to play with me. R u okey
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2 OdpowiedziLetting your boyfriend delete people on a 2000 FL database, who is he to tell you, who you can have on your friends list ?
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1 OdpowiedźI'm Xbox otherwise I'd say our clan
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1 OdpowiedźAyo guurrlll da back of dat cloak is redicuuulous
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1 OdpowiedźThe people who don't play with girls are the same people who thought they were cool for having a "girlfriend" in 4th grade.
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I got on #destiny for a minute and saw this. All good.
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5 OdpowiedziIm a guy, and quite frankly i fücking hate most guys. They're mostly all assholes. Their are some rare exceptions though
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Play with me or my gf blondie4210 and skylafox_
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10 OdpowiedziThey can play after making sandwiches for the men, so they can continue to earn the money for more sandwiches.
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Because the sweaty 12 year olds think that girls are icky.
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Tell them you are a girl, they think you are a kid.
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Cuz they should be making samiches
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1 OdpowiedźHonestly could care less if your a girl or guy straight gay or bi the whole point of the game is for it to be fun make some friends along the way and shoot the crap out of everything