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Edytowany przez użytkownika Fatal xoxo:
9/25/2015 5:38:28 AM
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My relationship...help?
I'm sorry I need to vent and you may say whatever you feel towards this lost.
I've been with my fiancé going on 3 years now. Everything was great until he made a mistake (not cheating). Trust has been an issue since then. He doesn't show TLC much anymore and I'm not going to lie I've been quite b!tchy more often. I don't get the attention I want. He can be a complete jerk and it makes me so angry I want to cry. He constantly changes his password on his phone. I don't know what to do anymore. /:
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Maybe stop being so much about yourself and your needs and focus on what he wants and try to make it better? Forgiveness is a good thing too
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Maybe you shouldn't be snooping around where you shouldn't
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You're dumb for staying with someone who is obviously cheating on you. He's so paranoid he changes his phone password? Lmfao. Stop letting your relationship blind you.
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does he believe he made the mistake you were referring to?
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13 Odpowiedzi3 years is a long time (been with mine for the same). If you feel like something is wrong talk to him and tell him how you feel. I know it feels like since you've been together so long you feel obligated to work things out. Trust me I know how it feels to feel like you're not getting enough attention. But don't let yourself feel less than you are!
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Tell him how you feel. Sit him down and have a serious talk.
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I feel like you posting nudes would help this situation come to a close ( •-•)
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I say just talk to him and tell him how you feel. The next step depends on his response and reaction to what you tell him. And as far as the phone thing. Going through people's phones is a weird situation some people are cool with it some not so get a good understanding about the boundaries in your relationship. But communication is everything.
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Simple solution. Deez nuts
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1 OdpowiedźIs he changing his phone password because you go through his phone?Regardless of what I do on my phone,it's my personal thing and I wouldn't want anyone going through it.I would get mad if I even had a brand new phone with literally nothing on it and found out someone was trying to go through it. You'd be better off talking to him about your issues instead of trying to snoop through his stuff. Of course I don't know your whole situation though.
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I'll give you all the attention you need bby [spoiler]come to daddy[/spoiler]
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It sounds like a good time to sit down with a relationship counselor for a number of reasons: the long engagement, lack of trust, attitude changes and generally lack of affection. If he refuses to go, that's a big red flag, as is his changing his phone password frequently. Give a trying at fixing this, but realize that sometime broken relationships cannot be fixed, and be prepared to end it if necessary.
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Do you and say fuk him. Change your passwords and don't give them to him. Find new friends and hang out with them. Pursue hobbies and /or interests without him. It sounds like he is doing whatever he wants, do the same. Show him you also have other things to do. In my experience, guys hate it when their shitty behavior ceases to upset you or piss you off, and they see you aren't depending on them to spend time with you. If he cares, he should come around. This approach also makes leaving him much easier should the need arise. You might even meet someone better!
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How does you being bitchy help your situation? It doesn't so stop. Also it boils down to this if u don't trust him how can u marry him? Make a decision. Decide to trust him again and marry him or don't trust him and break up cause believe me marriage isn't gonna fix that trust problem if anything it'll add new problems and u don't want a divorce.
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Edytowany przez użytkownika Mr BowTie: 9/26/2015 12:02:43 AMTLC? Why state your problems here? The Forum of assholes?
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Pm Engrapadora. He's an expert at this sort of thing
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1 OdpowiedźEdytowany przez użytkownika qoslsnsmqaaksk: 9/25/2015 9:23:30 PMPick me instead [spoiler]just kiddin[/spoiler]
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He's probably cheating. You should learn to stop be so depending on a guy, what is he your boss? The fuq you crying for?
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Sit down and talk to him about it.
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2 OdpowiedziYou either both sit down and talk and fix each issue or break it off and move on with someone you can trust
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9 OdpowiedziAren't there proper websites dedicated to these sort of things? You'd definitely have better luck here than with all us 40 year old fedora-tipping neckbeards
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Sounds like you two need counseling. My advice is just try to get a conversation about this stuff with him but be patient and not pushy about it.
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BBBBB BAD. BAD TO THE BONE
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Lots and lots of stuff I could say. But simply put.. don't be with someone you don't trust. It's the most direct, honest, and true comment I can leave. Best of luck.
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Aren't you that one girl from the all woman clan? Your fiancé sounds like he's about to fuсk up.
