Let's say your gf cheated on you with another guy for a week and got pregnant by him. The guy wants nothing to do with her or the child, all he was in it for was the sex.
She confesses to you about the cheating and pregnancy and she is really sorry and wants to stay with you. She also lives with you and you support her so if you don't take her back she lives out in the street with a baby on the way.
What do you do?
For women out there, let's say your bf cheated on you and knocked some girl up. The girl drops the baby off at your place and never comes back. The guy confesses that he knew about the pregnacy and was trying to hide it in hopes of keeping you. You two are also engaged. Do you still stay with your bf and become the new mother to the child?
[spoiler]tried to make this to a poll but had hell doing it so I said -blam!- it. [/spoiler]
My answer: To hell with them. She got herself into the situation, she can't figure a way out.
For those of you thinking this girl is just a regular gf. Let's say you two was also engaged. Also for those who say you would send her off to family to live, let's say she doesn't have any friends or family. Basically all she has is you.
[spoiler]I'm not in this situation btw lol. I been getting this reaction a bit. [/spoiler]
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5 OdpowiedziEdytowany przez użytkownika MattWilson: 6/15/2015 5:40:59 PMI would forgive her and raise the kid as if they were mine. I care about her too much to let something like that stop me from loving her. And then I would beat the guy so bad he'd never be able to have sex again.
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1 OdpowiedźEdytowany przez użytkownika a7thsonofa7thson: 6/17/2015 11:53:36 PMSorry - she's gotta go. Not your problem. She made her bed, and now she gets to lie in it. Also I would pray she picked up some herp's
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I'm with you I'll kick her out she shouldn't have cheated on me. I have no tolerance for cheaters. She'll find some sorry dude to help her
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If she wanted a man who would support her child, you would be the father. If she wanted a dick, who would run away from responsibility, she got one. She made her choice. It's not your problem anymore.
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I'd be devastated. And I'd probably kick the guys ass, but I'm sure if I truly loved her I would compromise. Adoption possibly..
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2 OdpowiedziI don't have a gf. Buuuut I do have a sister.
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WELL I GUESS SHE IS GONNA LIVE ON THE STREETS. I GUESS THATS WHATCHA GET FOR BEIN A SKAAAAAAAAAAAANK
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kill the dude drop the bitch
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Let's just say the other guy tripped off that cliff
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Microwave her
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1 OdpowiedźSaying I somehow had a girlfriend (which I have no desire for) and this happened... Abortion. * sips hot chocolate *
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you eat the foetus
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If I was the guy I'd kick her out
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Take everything and leave.
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Tough shit, were divorced.
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Bye Felicia
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Ad much as my heart would be broken, I would not leave a baby on the streets. I'd tell her that she could stay at most a year until she finds a job and a home and support her, but romantically, we're finished.
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3 OdpowiedziEdytowany przez użytkownika Altarisian: 6/16/2015 3:25:53 PMGirl version: dump my bf and kill the baby, it's not mine so why should I keep it? Guy version: stay with my gf but abort the child, only with her consent, because I do not want a child yet. Even if she doesn't love me that much I should at least help her abort the child so that she doesn't have a ruined life.
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2 OdpowiedziEye for an eye. Impregnate him
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I would be hurt but I would take care of her and the child.
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I would dump her. Yey, i am single.
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Edytowany przez użytkownika abelsinh: 6/17/2015 7:40:06 PMI would lie about recently taking an HIV test and finding out I'm possitive. It would be at least 3 months worth of worrying for both of them.
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"And he dropped me like a hot tamale!" -my gf
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Show her the door.
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Let her give birth to the baby, then tell her and that other guy dead baby jokes, just to screw with them lmao XD
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We would take the stairs alot, dont trip honey....