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12/29/2018 8:07:06 AM
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I could use some help (please no bs)

[i]please allow me to introduce myself I'm a man of wealth and taste I've been around a long, long year[/i] And I have trouble with women. I can't talk to them. Like at all. Or even look them in the eyes. I'm fine with women in my family, but I've either known them my whole life or their whole life. Sometimes I can do a friendly nod or wave but I end up feeling like I've been hit in the chest with a sledgehammer. How do I interact with women in a way where I don't come across as creepy AF?
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  • Thank you all so much it means a lot to me!

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  • Press the interact key, it's usually bound to enter, the A button, or the circle button, I believe. Gotta walk up to 'em though. No, real advice though. It don't matter. Guys, girls, attack helicopters- we're all the same. It feels different because you're not used to it, but once you interact with other people, you get used to it. A lot of etiquette dictates that you should talk differently to girls than guys, that certain words and topics aren't appropriate for mixed-gender conversations. Personally, I think that's stupid, and I often forget I'm "supposed to" act different around other gendered people. It really doesn't make a difference to most females how you talk. Just be yourself. The only thing to keep in mind- if it would generally be considered inappropriate, like insulting a dead dude at his funeral, don't do it lol. Inappropriate behavior and speech will still be inappropriate IMO, regardless of gender. Also, physical contact. Apparently, guys make physical contact often? Like, punching each other while joking around and stuff? Idk lol. Girls often make physical contact, but generally it's more like hugging and stuff. So, don't go around touching girls like you would guys. Some girls will act like guys, joke like guys, etc. That doesn't give you permission to touch them either lol. If they're okay with contact, they'll probably tell you lol. Really though, just be yourself. It'll be awkward at first, but you'll make female friends eventually, and it'll get easier. Girls are great, just be yourself and make friends. I know you can do it! [spoiler]Ew, so positive, um... hek you?[/spoiler]

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    • Simple. Just FHRITP.

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    • The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. You might want to give it a read.

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    • Don't stare, that's really important. Do make eye contact tho it's important to any conversation imo. Remember that girl's usually don't like being treated like some kind of special being because they look good. Don't get me wrong, being told you're good looking is important, just not to people you barely know. Others have said i t, so it's not really original but seriously, just treat women like you would men. Put yourself in our shoes and think about how you'd want to be treated if you were in a reversed situation. Hope that helps!

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      • Editado por The Dragon: 12/30/2018 9:07:00 AM
        1) realize that women are people too 2) be respectful 3) be you 4) stop toying with the ideas that any and all interaction with the opposite sex could lead to sex or that they’re trying to drop hints that they like you. Instead, treat them like you would any of your friends and family. 5) don’t be desperate for a relationship. Be content with the friend zone. Platonic friendships could indeed be more valuable and beneficial. 6) don’t be creepy/desperate. Just be cool. 7) girls, by nature, tend to be very judgmental. They’ll even judge each other by the shoes and clothes they wear. If a woman comes across as judgmental towards you, realize that you probably wouldn’t want to be friends with her in the first place. 8) WOMAN WILL SHIT TEST YOU!!! [url= https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/]this[/url] and [url= https://www.toddvdating.com/pass-shit-test/]here[/url] are good articles to give you the rundown on it.

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        • stop seeing them as women but as people, things get easier when you forget about sex and just talk

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        • Women sense when youre desperate...so...dont be. [spoiler]Yes Im good at solving problems, you're welcome.[/spoiler]

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          • Toast/envelope

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            • The secret is that there is no secret. Just stop thinking you have to “figure out” how to talk to them like they are some alien species or something. They are just regular people like you. They don’t bite (most of them). Just talk to them like you would talk to any guy.

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            • Editado por DosEquis4579: 12/29/2018 5:20:57 PM
              You could really start by not beginning all your conversations with random ass stones lyrics Edit: picture in your head you sleep with a trio of models every night. Sounds dumb but when you're a teenager this is a great way to get you in the right mindset when talking to the bebes. As you think, you shall become; if you fck three model in the same bed every night why would you be scared to talk to Suzy Rocketcrotch at school?

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              • Just show them you, they're people too. I never initiate a relationship with women intending to sex them or thinking it'll turn into something more, instead I choose to do that after I know who they REALLY are. Saves a lot of heartache. Excuse me for getting off track- to talk to anyone, especially women, is to forgive yourself first for whatever insecurities you have. It's a sea of lonely and awkward people, and you're swimming in it too. Shit's actually easy once you free your mind from the thought that other people are somehow different or untouchable.

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                • It can be weird to go out of your way to talk to girls, but if you sit by one at school (I'm assuming you're still in school; otherwise your issue is a bigger problem) that's a good place to start. Ask her how to do a problem on a worksheet, and try to make her laugh. (This does not mean google knock knock jokes and memorize 200 of them) It's also a bonus if you have a friend nearby, you can talk to them as if she isn't there, which will give her a sense of your personality, which will make her more comfortable around you; lowering the pressure when you do talk to her.

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                • ... Just walk up and say... [spoiler]you want a stick? Becky likes sticks[/spoiler] [spoiler]not included in the DLC[/spoiler]

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                  • Well I'm not to well versed in that meself. Though I suppose talking to the women in your life would be a good place to start. Asking girls online might help get down any certain quirks that different women may have.

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                    • Crouch, start waving you hands in the air and walk towards her while crouching and continuing to wave your arms. Works every time

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                    • hey what’s up

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                    • Maybe try small talk till you can just regularly talk. I dunno I just say whatever weird sh_t comes to mind with no censor. I used to be super shy though, so at least I can say it gets easier with practice.

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                    • Use a cheesy pickup line

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                    • They are people, talk to them like they are another person. There’s no trick or technique you just talk to them the same way you would talk to a guy or any of the women in your family, just present your best self. Now if you’re interested in getting a gorl to like you that’s different you got to either be flirty (but not to flirty) or charming or even better both. But above all else ya got to be confident even if you got to lie to yourself that you got confidence or of you have too much confidence that it’s borderline narcissism.

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                    • One thing that might help you out is to get it into your head that they aren't anymore special than a guy

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