Good for you, mate. I wish we weren't on different sides of the pond. I don't mind some no mic sessions. Sadly, it's the internet culture. It doesn't represent everyone, to be sure. There is little accountability with messages and even mic'd communication, especially with gaming. Use the report options often if they are offensive or hostile. I do. No reason to put up with someone randomly messaging you hate mail. But other than that, just gotta let it go. I know that's tough at times. Some can leave a bit of a sting. Sorry people send you mail like that. But again, it's become the culture. Play how you want to. If you have people to support you, good for you. Raids, trials, doesn't matter. If y'all are having fun and aren't hurting anyone else by it, who cares. You are welcome to add me...gamer tag is same as name. I'm on at random times as I have kids and work and other responsibilities. Mic'd or not...doesn't bother me. I've even been the leader of a raid where I was the only one mic'd calling out everything...mates just message if they have a question. And I'd rather silence than screaming anyway, which happens more often than not with randoms. Good luck to you either way! Good post. I'm sure you aren't the only guardian with these experiences. I had a difficult time at first myself.