Firstly... A game forum is not really the best place to go to discuss an issue such as this. Secondly... You're both wayyyy to young to be in this situation. Neither of you have experienced enough of life to now be in what appears to be a situation neither of you were ready for mentally or financially. Thirdly... If he's not going to contribute like a man you should tell him to piss off. Short, simple and to the point. Based on this post, he's not contributing or stepping up to the plate anyway, so what have you got to lose by calling him out? If he picks up his act and starts being a man, then it's worth it, if he says farewell, you have one less child to look after. I'm a Dad, and I can't stress enough how weak he sounds. Tell him to shit or get off the pot.