No offense, but your story sounds a bit suspect. Most girl gamers I have come across are no more or no less able than their male counterparts. Real life gender does not matter in video games. There are the highly skilled, the unskilled, and the varying degrees in between. Whether it be a PvE or PvP, I expect all players to be competent, so if you are obvious about your gender have miss or princess or queen or lady in your gamer tag and you are on the opposing team, you can count on me to compete honorably and show no mercy and I would appreciate the same warrior's courtesy. And rude? Most players are tripping over themselves to get the attention of a female gamer in rather idiotic, creepy, and unglamorous ways. I often find myself being very protective of the sole female gamer in my clan even though she is capable and does not need my governance.