The only people who probably don't have that person waiting for them, and this isn't necessarily true for everyone, is people who really don't get phased by sexual temptation. Heck, the Bible says it's better to be alone, but if you can't resist sexual temptation then take a wife. Some people just aren't bothered by that. Just like I don't find swearing a struggle to resist. So she exists. Trust me. Pretty much, any relationship you experience in life, should teach you something and prepare you for when you meet that perfect person for you. So prepare man! But don't give your virginity away either. During sex, your brain releases a chemical forming a bond with that person. So you are literally "giving" part of yourself to that person. So, you see all these kids and teens going on rampages or acting crazy over relationships, because they gave themselves away to so many people, they lost who they were. So be cautious in that area.