I see this attitude often on these forums, but please stop lying to yourselves. If you admit you can't get girls in your current state you can begin to work to improve yourselves and transform your lives and stop living in deep denial. Sex isn't some sacred union, it's hormones and physical attraction. Sex was around millions of years before love and sex between humans is no different than sex between velociraptors. So in short you are not Tim Tebow. You can't have sex with anyone you want to you just choose not to. Women simply don't want you in your current state and your brain refusing to accept that treats sex as something sacred. Start working out is a great start to transforming yourself. Good luck friends. Ill answer any questions you have and try to help you.