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1/20/2022 3:24:34 AM
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Idt it's illegal to date your cousin, but what you're describing isn't love.
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If you knew why I love her, you’d understand
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There's a difference between "love" & "in love". If you think you're in love with someone you're not dating, you're obsessed, smitten, crushing, etc.
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I know.
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So you dated her before?
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But you think you're in love with her?
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So you're aware that it's not really love, but just an obsession?
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It’s not an obsession
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What makes you think you're in love with her?
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What is love?
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Now tell me is it easy?
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Baby don't hurt me.
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Because of every girl if liked, she’s the only one I felt passionate towards or had actual reason last why I love her aside from looking pretty. (Pretty is an understatement)
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& why don't you date her?
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1: I’m 15 so I’m not ready and very aware of the fact(which makes it more painful) 2: My mom and dad won’t allow me to date until I’m 18. 3: she turned 17 two months ago. 4: I don’t know her parents and she doesn’t know mine. 5: Her parents wouldn’t let her date someone like me.(She’s from a bit wealthier family than I am which is most of it) 6:By the time I’m able to date I bet she’ll already have a boyfriend. 7: Even if she is single by the time I’m able to date, I doubt her parents would allow dating in the middle of college and would want her to date people more like her.
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1: partner and I met at 15 and 17 if you aren't ready to date, you probably have a crush and aren't really in love 2: her mom wouldn't allow her to date until she was 16. Didn't stop us. 3: 15 and 17 isn't a huge age gap and is absolutely acceptable. I don't see why this is a problem. 4: many people who start dating don't know each other's parents. I don't see why this is a problem. 5: her parents don't decide who she dates. 6: you can date now if you want to. 7: see 5 It really sounds like you have a crush man. How much do you really know about her? Are you actually close to her? Do you just know what color she likes? Or has she confided in you and told you her deepest secret and the things that haunt her at night? It sounds like you thought she seemed nice and pretty and idealized some version of her and fell in love with that ideal you made up and think it's truly her you fell in love with. I'm sorry, but it sounds like you're in love with an idea not a person. Life moves on. And it will take you with it no matter if you like that or not. If you need closure. Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same, sure it'll hurt, but it will be over, and you'll be able to move on. If she does feel the same, try it. Maybe it'll work and you'll prove my "you fell in love with an idea" speech wrong. Maybe it won't and you'll realize that love is a very nuanced thing. Take my advice, or don't. It's in your hands now. I've given you my wisdom. It's on you to use it.
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Thanks. I’ll take it into consideration.[spoiler]licks thumb[/spoiler]
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All y’all’s parents need to get out of your lives.
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That's all stupid. If you two like each other, you should go for it.
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The problem is I don’t think she likes me back
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Only one way to find out.
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[quote]Only one way to find out.[/quote] You could apply this to everything in life
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Jvp droppin’ GEMS up in here!
