YOU'VE AWOKEN THE TROLLS!!! But in all seriousness, I know where you're coming from. The destiny player base is one part cool four parts cunts when it comes to lfg. When you do find those cool and friendly people that show understanding and are there to both complete and have fun in the raids, then you are prettty much set. The social anxiety is something I can't help with because like you, I now how hard it is to actually start talking. But again if you find those friendly guys then you'll feel a lot better during the games.