Ok so with the first guy you have to break off and just wait it out, you will find someone that you can love and that will love you the same, but that person isn’t him with what he is doing. With the second guy, if he loves you and you don’t feel the same way you need to end it because it will not help you move on, and the longer you wait the more it will hurt him, take it from a guy who was in #2’s place. If you tell him sooner then later he will be able to move on as well and not feel like he was strung along for as long as he thought you loved him the same. The more you hurt him the worse you will feel about it and it will only make it harder to get over guy one as bad as he was because you will feel bad and try to compensate with #1 Take some time, understand being alone, and don’t feel you need to date everyone guy you meet too, I had the chance to date over 30 people but I waited and didn’t date them because I didn’t feel it was perfect, and when I met the person I thought it would be great with, she became my wife You will meet a lot of people, one of them will stand out and you will be able to tell instantly, and if they feel the same that is the only relationship that will be important and memorable to you, guy 1 and 2 will be forgotten in terms of romantic, try your best to be gentle on guy 2, hence sooner then later. You only get so many friends in life Try to keep them