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Editado por TheRagingPine:
7/2/2018 5:37:14 AM
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I can't stop crying.
Why can't I just let go of a guy that tried to use me?
EDIT: if you are confused just read the conversations. It'll clear it up kind of.
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18 RespuestasWait aren't you the girl that was freaking out about learning to square dance with the guy you liked? Forgive my way late reply (if you even see it). I've been away for a while and was just scrolling through old posts.
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1 RespuestaYou must of dried up into sand by now 🤔
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8 RespuestasI saw some other posts. Especially the one with Coolhand Luke. Be strong and courageous. Pray to God and he will show you what to do. I’m sorry you’re going through this hard time. I just broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago. I’ve been praying though. And studying the word of God. I’ll pray for you.
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Editado por Eden: 7/10/2018 1:08:16 PMBreak off all contact with Guy #1. He sounds like a manipulative dick and the longer you stay with him the worse off you'll be. Also break it off with Guy #2. You said you don't love him, and a relationship like that isn't going to work out. You said you don't know how to break it off without hurting him, but the fact of the matter is he'll probably feel hurt no matter what you do, and the longer you keep this going, the more hurt he'll be. Your best bet is to stop as soon as possible to minimise the damage. In the same way Guy #1 is using you for sex and nudes, you're using Guy #2 for love and affection, whether you consciously realise it or not.
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35 RespuestasNo man shall be able to stand before you all the days of your life. Just as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you or forsake you. Joshua 1:5 Cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6&7 Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved. Psalms 55:22 Nevertheless, I am continually with you; you hold my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will receive me to glory. Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalms 73:23-26 And finally one of my personal favorites: Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10 In summation, God never leaves us and always loves you. I’ll pray that you feel His presence and love more in the next days than ever before.
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I know it’s gonna be hard but if you’re not a mom or married it’s a lot easier to let go than compared to you being a mom or married. Don’t ever cheat on the person you don’t love. Do them the kindness & end the relationship. It makes my blood boil when good people get -blam!-ed over. And for the original guy, you miss memories but not him directly. You can get any attention/affection from anyone & anywhere.
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1 RespuestaTbh Im heartbroken as well. My girlfriend just told me that she wants to become a man so I was forced to break up with her. I didn’t want to but I’m straight so I had to. It hurts but I know I will get through it. (If you want to talk it through PM me and I will listen. :)
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Welcome to depression, sweetie!
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Well, I’m not sure how I can help. But you can always send me a message and I’ll try to help you feel better
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9 RespuestasSomeone broke my heart a few months ago and now I feel like I never will love again. The pain makes us stronger, and the strength is pain.
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11 RespuestasEditado por ZoniCat: 7/2/2018 8:56:34 PMWe have a tendency to love the people we think are greater than ourselves. It doesn't matter how, maybe they are stronger or more confident, smarter or more determined, maybe even sexier or more open minded. I'd recommend you analyze the guy; or all and any guys you've ever loved, but most definitely the one that hurt you. Figure out what you saw in him you were missing in yourself, and when you do, embrace the tears and grow beyond. Because even the trees need tears to grow.
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6 RespuestasWhat the hell do you think this is, facebook? Go away.
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1 Respuesta:/ I feel ya. It will be ok. Never forget that you made the decision to leave him for a reason. And it’s gonna hurt. Just ride this one out and know that whenever you need someone to lean on you can lean on us. Offtopic may be the strangest and most random group of people, but we do care... it’s gonna be ok.
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4 RespuestasYou're just having withdrawals, it happens in every addiction. Go out and meet new people. Flirt with other guys. You're going to find a lot of rough, but trust me you will find someone out there who will be your diamond.
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5 RespuestasDo you even know him to love him, though? Guys will lie and tell you what they think you want to hear for nudes and sex. And since apparently that's all he's interested in you for how do you ever see anything working out other than you constantly being hurt? You're worth more than that.
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1 RespuestaJust try to get him out of your head for awhile. Go hang out with some friends and get some food.
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3 RespuestasShameful how some guys really do BS like that. You left him?
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1 Respuesta[quote]Why can't I just let go of a guy that tried to use me? EDIT: if you are confused just read the conversations. It'll clear it up kind of.[/quote] Best way to get back at a man that tried to hurt you is to start dating women because pussy is better OMEGALUL
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I am genuinely sorry to hear that you are in pain. I know it does not seem like it, but it will pass. Take some time for you, just you. Rediscover yourself and love yourself. That is the only way to move on and shake off the baggage for the person out there that truly deserves your affections. If you need to talk, my ears are open.
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how old are you
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Lol rekt
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5 Respuestas[quote]Why can't I just let go of a guy that tried to use me?[/quote] because you let yourself get attached to someone [spoiler]mistake #1[/spoiler] and your not trying to forget him[spoiler]like this whole post is a tribute too his memory and will only extend the time you think about him post breakup mistake #2[/spoiler] [i]but aye at least you knew when to kick em to the curb, proud of u for that[/i]
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5 RespuestasOk so with the first guy you have to break off and just wait it out, you will find someone that you can love and that will love you the same, but that person isn’t him with what he is doing. With the second guy, if he loves you and you don’t feel the same way you need to end it because it will not help you move on, and the longer you wait the more it will hurt him, take it from a guy who was in #2’s place. If you tell him sooner then later he will be able to move on as well and not feel like he was strung along for as long as he thought you loved him the same. The more you hurt him the worse you will feel about it and it will only make it harder to get over guy one as bad as he was because you will feel bad and try to compensate with #1 Take some time, understand being alone, and don’t feel you need to date everyone guy you meet too, I had the chance to date over 30 people but I waited and didn’t date them because I didn’t feel it was perfect, and when I met the person I thought it would be great with, she became my wife You will meet a lot of people, one of them will stand out and you will be able to tell instantly, and if they feel the same that is the only relationship that will be important and memorable to you, guy 1 and 2 will be forgotten in terms of romantic, try your best to be gentle on guy 2, hence sooner then later. You only get so many friends in life Try to keep them
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4 RespuestasEditado por Sportmanteau: 7/2/2018 11:38:09 AMIt’s not uncommon for that to happen, there was this one girl I couldn’t get over for a while because i was stuck in a euphoric state remembering all the good things about her when the bad far outweighed it. She claimed she hated drama yet whenever something didn’t go her way she’d act like a -blam!-ing toddler. I’m glad she’s gone now though. My advice is to just focus on what made y’all break up and think logically about it. Worked for me.
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Nobody's perfect. You can soberly understand something in your mind, while your heart tells you to throw caution to the wind in the heat of the moment. The easier-said-than-done advice is simply cut contact. Eliminate the temptation from your life and move forward. Time heals all wounds. In the interim, I'd give the same advice as I would anyone at a rough spot in life: surround yourself with good people that enrich your life, and set your eyes on a meaningful goal. Good luck in this situation.
