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Editado por irishfreak:
2/6/2015 5:26:32 PM
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So Im super ultra mega shy...
When I tried to talk to my crush today, I did not. Got to freakin scared, so if anyone who has gone through the same as me has a suggestion so I mutha-blam!-in man up It would be highly appreciated.
Im 15 btw.
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11 Respuestasok, here is some solid solid advice. Your crush is the big fish man. if you try for that at first, your going to freeze up and look stupid. what you need to do is practice. try talking too, and flirting with other girls that you dont like as much first. girls that if you say soething stupid, who the hell cares. then once you feel confident, and like you have the gist of talking to girls, then give the crush a chance. And whats the worst that can happen, you see something in another girl you never saw before, and realize she is awsome too? I have been where you are man, and it can feel scary as shit to talk to the girl you want. but the only thing that will screw you over is that fear. it will drive down your confidence, and make you seam awkward. they can smell fear. i mean that metaphorically, but also, in a way it is true. if you are confident, and not scared, you release pheromones, and will actually seem more attractive to those around you. But rmember most of all, if everything fails, it is not the end of the world. You will have many girls come through your life. and they all eventually fail, unless you end up marrying them, and you are too young to be thinking of that just yet. Do not be scared to mess up. accept the fact you may make mistakes. and then learn from those. they will make you stronger our fear of failure creates the failure we fear.
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Hey atheon, is ur crush the Templar or the undying mind? Hahahahaha
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10 RespuestasAsk her out if she says no whip out your penis and spin it around at light speed that should open a time vortex allowing you to travel back into time and remind yourself not to ask her out therefore changing history and you would have never asked her out Profit???
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8 RespuestasI am boss. It worked :p turns out she was into me for more than a year xD
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I'm 15 4/5 and I'm talking to my friends girlfriend -_-
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Same happened to me Atheon, some a-hole took my spot next to my crush so I missed my chance, always got Tomorrow though.
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Do this
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Editado por fraggumz: 3/10/2015 2:28:19 AMYou gotta stop caring It'll come with age and it makes you smooth Also let them talk and be sincerely interested in what they say
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1 RespuestaThere is no reward without risk. Also, I live by a 'will I die if I try this' montra. Course I'm 22 now and a bit more developed in the head. Looking back when I was 15, man high school was rough. My advice man is to just be friends with her. Best become friends before dating, and it usually works better that way :)
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Just ask them out
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You will [i]never[/i] have her if you keep on being shy. Shyness is one of the least desirable traits that a man can have. Take charge, be strong. You need to take the initiative and start talking to her. Give it about a month after becoming her friend and then ask her if she wants to check out a new movie in the cinema with you. Boom. You've successfully asked your crush out.
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Maybe your just gay
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2 Respuestas>be me >16 year old beta male >gains courage to talk to girl I like >huh-hi >girl looks and walks away like bringing happend >go bitch about how girls only like jerks on the internet
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7 RespuestasWant some real talk? It doesn't matter. You're 15. Just ask her out, [b]because nothing's ever going to happen until you do. This is the only way.[/b] No stupid lines, no pick-up tricks, just, "Hey, what're you doing this weekend? Do you want to see a movie with me?" If she's into you, she'll say yes, and things will be amazing. If she says no, no lies, it'll probably suck, but you'll get over it. [b]Just don't make a scene and don't treat her badly afterwards.[/b] Whether or not she likes you is not a reflection on you as a person. There's nothing wrong with you and there's nothing wrong with her if she doesn't like you, she's just not interested. I promise you there are girls out there that will like you that you will not be interested in, which doesn't say anything about you or them. You'll learn from this either way. You're gonna be fine. Best of luck, guardian.
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OP, we have simething in common. I'm gonna try again next week.
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Initiating is the hardest part, at least for me, after that it comes naturally
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I don't think people realize that most 15-year-old girls are kinda "desperate". If you're a decent looking guy you have about a 10% chance of being turned down. Less if you actually know the girl and spend time with her.
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Ha! 15 year old beta having a crush.
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Your Atheon. If you screw it up reverse time and try again.
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2 RespuestasJust do what I did when I was in that same situation: 1. Try to talk to your crush 2. Develop dry mouth and fall completely on your face 3. Crush looks embarrassed and never looks in your direction again 4. Get over it, she was a b!tch anyway 5. Get better at talking to girls and flirting for the rest of high school and college 6. Meet a girl who is way hotter and likes you for you 7. Make a power move and ask her out (those years of getting better at talking to girls will pay off) 8. Marry that amazing woman two years later But seriously, this happened to me.
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1 RespuestaSack up and talk to her. Be honest and tell her you like her and would like to take her out sometime. If you get shot down, then at least you know. If anyone picks on you for it, tell them to -blam!- off and at least you had the balls to do it instead of just playing with them in the shower while looking at the back of a Harry Potter DVD. If it's a dude, sub all the "her's" for "him's".
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3 RespuestasTreat her like shit... Lots of women like being treated like crap
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Grow some balls and get after it. What's the worst that can happen.
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You just need confidence. Go to a store and talk to random women that you will never see a again and hit on them. It works for everyone
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Atheon is 15 and has a crush?!?
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1 RespuestaThere's a simple solution. Don't be shy.
