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3/20/2014 4:27:55 AM
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Damn girl problems.
I've been texting the girl I like and I asked if she wanted to hang out sometime. Not as a date mind you, but just to have some fun listening to music and enjoying each others company as friends. She kinda hesitated and said she doesn't really hang out with her friends usually she only has a few exceptions.
I replied:[quote] Anyway, this is the important part. What if I want to become one of those exceptions? Would you make the time for me? [/quote]
Then this crap happened:
Girl:[quote] Idk see I have this kinda issue with people now a days. Since alot of people are going to collage and ill be following suite ive been sorta breaking my ties here. Trying not to get attached to people im gonna leave. [/quote]
[quote] Or that are gonna leave me [/quote]
Honestly, this near breaks my heart.
I told her this hurts me.
She said she'd never do that on purpose.
But this still burns.
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That's just a way of saying no while trying not to hurt your feelings. She just doesn't -blam!- with you on that level and since you told her this hurt your feelings, she probably thinks you're potentially clingy or a little bitch. Just say whatever about it. Don't waste your time and thoughts on it.
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The problem is, youre a beta male and need to be more alpha. Try not beibg a little pussy.
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1 RespuestaWell if she is moving to university then slowly distance yourself from her, you clearly care about her a lot and while this isn't much it's obviously had a strong effect on you. Move on from her, plenty of fish in the sea.
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5 RespuestasI know it hurts man, but trust me in this one - she is saving the both of you a lot of pain in the future. The last thing you want to do is get into a serious relationship right before college. You'll struggle through long distance bullshit until finally one of you either ends it or cheats and then ends it. Should she be cutting all her ties? Not at all. It's good to have people in your corner even of they're hours away. At least you have someone to talk to. But pre-college [i]romantic[/i] relationships have an extremely low success rate. Just remember to get out and do stuff that you like to do in college. And talk to people. Be personable. If you do that you'll meet more mature (and more attractive) females. Honestly, I would suggest not getting into anything super serious until your second year because 1) you need to get used to classes, and 2) people still need time to start thinking and acting like adults instead of high schoolers. Whatever happens, good luck man. If you really feel strongly about just being friends tell her that. Just don't be too hurt if she doesn't change her mind.
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1 Respuesta[quote]collage[/quote] Leave her.
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Hit that and quit it.
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Typical. Wouldn't expect anything less.
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10 RespuestasShe's not yours, so it doesn't matter. Get over it.
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Just sleep with her and be done with it. No strings attached. Make sure you tell her outright.
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Fuck her brains out. Life's too short to be left waiting.
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1 RespuestaI feel bad for you son.
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10 Respuestas:( Don't worry about it man You're young You'll move on to bigger and better things And never forget You always have us no matter what happens
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8 RespuestasLol if only this was a real girl problem. Dude just talk to a different girl! There's plenty out there that would want to hang out.
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5 Respuestas>another girl advice thread No offense, Stalwart.
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K [i] [/i]
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1 Respuesta[b] [/b]
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1 RespuestaFeels bad, man.
