I got into yet another argument with my parents. they think i spend too much time online and its cutting into my school work.
Ughhhh they drive me crazy! they arent even around me all the time. they just pop in accidentally, not even to see how im doing and draw these crazy conclusions.
they see me check a message and ignore the pile of work ive got through. oh she must have been cuaght up with her social life... AGAIN!
give me a break.
So yeah, for three hours i tasted freedom. lol it was nice.
I literally just took the stuff i wanted and left. i went to a Tim Hortons coffee shop and cried a bit but it was still good to just get everything out of my system without the pressure of other people around. the hour long walk helped me to clear my head too. my shoes are ruined though.
oh yeah, so when i got home i was grounded. my mom took this as a direct defiance and insta grounded me so im typing this up on my laptop. they dont know i still have it, lol.
i know that you guys hate it when i make these kinds of threads but ive been dying to get this off my chest and i know that some of you kinda care. im only really looking for any helpful ideas you can give me.
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That's nice.
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5 Respuestas[quote]I got into yet another argument with my parents. they think i spend too much time online and its cutting into my school work.[/quote] Then LISTEN TO THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Both my sons went through stages of this in high school. The oldest got through his fairly easily, graduated college last year. But online forums and games distracted him in some classes, and he had the distractions removed until the issue was resolved. It only took a couple months. My youngest is in high school now. He's a good kid, but bullheaded. He has gone through an entire 2 years of no games except for on the weekends (during the school year) twice. He's finally got the message and put his priorities in place. He plays with me on a regular basis now, so long as the grades don't slip. Bottom line is, you CAN NOT replace this time in your life when it comes to REAL WORLD. Your grades and actions now follow you and can dictate your direction for the rest of your life. NONE of this online interaction is needed. Your grades are. You may like the distraction online and social media offers, but it is a pit easy to fall into and way harder to crawl out of. Prioritize now and make it count. You have no idea what awaits you later in life. School won't prepare you for all of it, not even close. But you have to have the credentials that say you did it when it matters. School years are [u]short[/u]. Do your best. It may not seem like that now, but once your done and making your own - it makes a difference. /Dad rant
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#RageQuit
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3 Respuestas#Facebook
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Editado por Ingy: 1/16/2014 5:49:06 AMHmmmmmmm This is good Venting your feelings is always good We have to say Cherish your parents They love you more than you think They only want the best for you And trust me, you will miss them once you move on Try to understand your parents instead of thinking that they're trying to stress you We would recommend sitting down and talking about these issues and try to get them to understand Most of all: Trust Them Don't hide Unless this is an abusive relationship or circumstances stand in the way, this is the advice we would give The Floof is always here to listen so you don't need to be afraid to talk I say "we" because this is a cooperative post between me and flavs of #gaming Hope things go your way :)
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You'll be okay
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Well then - get a job, rent a room or an appartment - pay your won bills. It's easy, trust me!
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1 RespuestaPlease pardon me for any ignorance of your life, but that sounds delightful! I miss my parents saying that stuff. I miss "running away" from home. I miss getting grounded. I miss getting things taken away. ...I miss my mother and father.
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You should have left for good. If you're just gonna leave to spite them, there's no point.
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Only read the last few sentences, make a ice hut to stay warm. If you are in the desert then make a tattoonie hut to stay cool and don't let the Jawa's entice you into buying their robots.
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You should listen to your parents.
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2 RespuestasBEGINNING TRANSMISSION: (Low melodious hum.) I do not know what is going on in your personal life or do I care, however you should take the time to appreciate your parents and what they do for you even if it does not seem like much. It sucks a hell of a lot more when when they are gone. ENDING TRANSMISSION:
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10 RespuestasYour parents.
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<Goes to Tim Horton's. <Expects sympathy. [spoiler]Don't worry about sharing personal feeling and opinions on here though, were all entitled to the ability to vent and make Shrek-themed erotica.[/spoiler]
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1 RespuestaI think your parents simply don't trust you to regulate yourself on your own. You should just do your work first and then use your phone only when it's done.. That way if your parents give you shit for being on your phone you can just tell them you did your work and it'll be done. Some battles just aren't worth fighting. Just cooperate and it'll save everyone a lot of stress and your work will be finished to boot! I definitely get how being a teenage girl, having a social life where you can talk to your friends is really important, (I REALLY get that,) but those messages will still be on your phone when you get to them. It's better to get your work done first. Besides, sometimes it's good to keep your friends waiting a little bit. Don't feel that you need to be a slave to their every text.
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1 RespuestaWell if you have anything less than a solid 3.0 GPA and I saw you always sitting on a computer I would be pissed too. If you have better grades than that then you still are not obligated to have internet. I wish I had a laptop.
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Three hours? So you essentially went to see a movie?
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Definitely Shadows.
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And you're telling the flood...
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I have no help I can give you. I feel way worse than that almost depressed with it but not yet
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15 RespuestasEditado por Jim the Admin: 1/15/2014 6:02:53 PM[quote]three hours[/quote]Lightweight. That isn't running away at all. Running away means you don't come back for a while. I went and saw the Hobbit when my parents were mad at me, is that considered running away? Edit: in all seriousness. Rebellion is nice and all but it's just a tad immature. I learned a long time ago it's easier to just carry the cross silently.
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it only would have made a statement had you not gone back. honestly everyone else is giving you sound advice. just put up with them for however much longer and then move out.
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I'd offer ideas, but would you take them? Would you allow me to give you advice?
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A whole three hours. Watch out everyone, we got a badass over here!