Its also not that you can't play sports or even that you have no money. No, your attitude is why you can't talk to the opposite sex. Guys who play sports are confidant and competitive. That is why they get chicks. Its not that they play sports, its that they are the kind of person who would. If your goal is to meet girls, forget about working out or joining the football team. Instead fix your confidence probem. That may mean working out or playing sports. It may mean getting therapy or taking anti-depressants.