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10/14/2018 12:06:27 PM
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Clans are becoming places for bullies. There should be places to report bad behavior.
I have been in at least three clans filled with arrogant people that are rude and disrespectful to others. Some people take a little bit of power and use it to disrespect others and they think they have the right to dictate how to play the game. Having one group of people disrespect others because they don't do as they want you to is not cool or good for the game.
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Then join a different clan
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11 RespuestasDon't be naive. The clans are just people. People can be nice just as much as they can be assholes. Be choosier in your clan selection. Look at gamertags and profiles. Do they have an age restriction? Is their clan-description childish and fraught with typos and poor grammar? These are all questions you could ask PRIOR to joining a clan to get a better determination of the clan's culture and different personalities. ***Excessive 420 references and immature sexual-innuendos in the clan's roster of gamertags is one of several red-flags you could look for. ***
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16 Respuestaskeep jumping clans. for real dont cry about people being people. they can be who they want to be. you dont have to stay there. go be you somewhere else. supposed to find a clan you like not force people to be who you want them to be. you are doing just what they were only in a more passive way.
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Hey look it’s Caillou the Grownup
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Or you were a helicopter kid and now your in the real world and can’t handle ppl. All groups are toxic at times. If you need a church setting I bet There’s a nice Christian clan for you somewhere lol keep trying
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3 RespuestasLol one and only rule i have in my clan is to respect each other and just play the game how you want, i like to keep my clan asshole free and i will boot people when they become disrespectful, i am even more strict with people i have given multiple chances to. But i have only had to swing my ban hammer 3 times or 4 times , but only at those who i deemed deserving as a founder i take my position seriously and i will not allow anyone who is going to be toxic and ruin anyone's time to be in my clan. we help each other in both pvp and pve like you are supposed to do, making the clan about "who has the highest kd dick or the most raid clears " isn't my clans goal, even though we do play the high end activities, we do it for the experience and because we enjoy it, except pvp, the only pvp game type thats fun is iron banner.
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3 RespuestasFor anybody that wants to try and give the op any advice... Be sure and read his own replies throughout his own thread. The reason he bounces out of clans will become rather obvious.
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5 RespuestasClans having drama... This is new & Interesting. If you dislike the atmosphere then leave & be a renegade player (ie: Solo or Clanless) No one is forcing a clan on you.
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2 RespuestasThe Clan leader makes some valid points and i agree that the op must be removed from his clan.
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1 RespuestaEditado por vinstri: 10/14/2018 3:36:39 PMThat sucks! Both the clans I've been in have been/are positive experiences. My clan is full of great guys. Keep looking around for a good fit.
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Well OP, there might not be places to report bad behavior in clans, but there sure as shit are ways to report your behavior on these forums. Might have considered that before you opened up on...everyone who wanted to help you, apparently.
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4 RespuestasRead the OP replies to his own thread The issue is himself
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1 RespuestaMake your own clan and be the change you want to see in others.
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2 RespuestasI have a fix for you: join the clan I'm in!
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1 RespuestaAfter reading the responses here I can safely say that you're the problem. Stop blaming others and own up to your own misgivings. Check yourself.
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17 RespuestasAfter reading these comments, I can tell you are young and don't have any wisdom. You say people bully you, yet these replies that you have made imply that you are the bully in this situation. Hypocrisy, irony, and arrogance at its finest.
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1 RespuestaNot really bungie's problem or fault. Internet is full of assholes. That's the problem with the world today is these people would just live under rocks. Now they are internet tough guys. I'm in a clan called team firefly. Large mix of people skill level wise. I'm sure you would find some people that you would get along with.
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2 RespuestasAs a clan founder I don’t allow toxicity in my clan from members or admins, it’s a game and we all have life’s outside of it so no reason for hostility or drama. If people bring about a negative atmosphere then it’s on them when they have to find a new clan.
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4 RespuestasRegardless of your issues with clan leadership, your conduct and responses in this thread are a clear indicator of how you interact with people. Founders and Admins run their clans however they want. If you're uncomfortable in a clan, there's nothing stopping you from leaving and joining a new one, or starting your own... but you don't seem like the type that plays well with others anyway. Also, calling your clan founder a narcissist in a public post is probably one of the many reasons you can't find a clan to settle into. As a clan admin, I've taken the proactive step of blacklisting you, in the event you ever seek membership with mine. We have no room for immature shenanigans like this. Posts like this and attitudes like yours are exactly what's "not cool or good for the game."
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6 RespuestasMaybe it's not the clans that are the issue here. You've attacked pretty much everyone that has replied here. Seems this is a you problem
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2 RespuestasYes. You need to leave that clan and join another. Or you can report them for griefing.
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Editado por CatMan: 10/14/2018 11:23:51 PMI've been in three also. They all wanted users to use an app they only ever used to talk about stuff other than the game, or they weren't active in the game. To be honest I'm just not clan material. I play solo for a reason. I don't really want to talk after getting off of work and that's all I do. Occasionally I will play with a friend or my brother.
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2 RespuestasBy looking at OP's replies and cross-referencing with the clans he's joined, one fact becomes clear. The clans aren't the problem. OP is.
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5 RespuestasYou need your safe space?
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I’m pretty sure it’s you. You sound like the type of person who treats other people rudely and gets mad when people treat you the same way.
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2 RespuestasLighten up Francis
