First off, long read. I'm gonna start by saying I was a very active player in year one and year two, I raided a lot. I have noticed over time that raid groups have been getting more and more spazzy about people being perfect. And a lot of the time the ones who cry the most are the ones who have two completions and have seen all the YouTube walkthroughs. So my message is... Don't be so jumpy about finishing first try. Learn your teammates playstyle/timing a bit. Bouncing through 5 different raid groups just to finish is just as slow as wiping 10 or 15 times. I did a Crota challenge last night with a kid who almost EVERYONE would have kicked, he was just not very good. We were trying to do Crota with two swords and I missed two hits so we would have to do three. So we let the kid try on the third sword just for fun, and he clutched it out. Now the kid feels like a champ, he's stoked on raiding, and will probably get better as a result. And now we have one more person to raid with. Let's stop scaring away potential raiders for us to raid with. I know people don't want to spend all day doing a raid, but come on laugh a little have some fun... It is just a game after all. Edit: thank for the replies guys keep em coming, we want more people to be able to link up with other cool players. Saturdays are my raid day. Anyone looking for a chill team on xbone hit me up then. Edit 2: wow a whole day later and we still on top of the trending. Keep it up guys, we will make raiding fun for all.