Please believe me as a female, if we ever say I'm okay or I'm fine it means we really aren't we just want you to pry and try to break down our defenses to find out what is wrong. We think by doing that it tells us you care. We are insecure by nature and constantly need confirmation that our men care about us. We also want our men to be able to know what's wrong without us telling you. I know that's like mind reading but it's true. It makes us feel good that you know us well enough to know when something is bothering us.