There's this girl I like. She rejected me last year, but I stuck around and maybe 3 weeks ago, she accepted me after I asked for the second time. Now that it's been a couple of weeks, I now live in fear that she's going to leave bofore any dates have happened. She still acts positive towards me, no negative feelings, but when I text her now she always is busy, and I'm trying to plan a date with her but she also is busy even one that I tried to set 3 weeks in the future...there are other things I'm not going to mention it, but my question to any of you seasoned veterans is this;
I feel like she might end it , how does one let go easily?I want have some sort of winter contingency(halo?) Plan for if it happens. ..
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1 RespuestaGirls are overrated, stick to hanging out with your buds. You'll be much better off, trust me. That or beer... Beer works, beer works great for everything.
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1 RespuestaCalm down: you've got this. First, you make sure her "busy" is truly just work, and ONLY work. Is she older than you cause it sounds like she is. Second, once you've figured out if she's avoiding by checking out her schedule, then ask if there is a way or chance you can spend more time with her. Third, sit down and ask her if she's just allowing you to be around her or if she actually cares, and if she says "cares", then hug her and just say something like "just making sure" then she'll ask why and you tell her you are trying to be of use to her, that will work. Fourth(the hard one), if she says "allows", then you simply say "oh, ok" or whatever you say and walk away or say goodbye, for good. Find another girl, there's millions out there, and this one doesn't seemed to care for you if she says that. I'm sure somewhere in your life there's another opportunity that you haven't found yet.
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4 Respuestasjust... let it go ❄️
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3 RespuestasStep 1) Watch Frozen. Step 2) Sing. Step 3) Get stabbed because that's a -blam!-ing stupid song.
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Open your hand, let her fall 2 feet onto the sidewalk since you're on the first story window, done.
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[url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2k0SmqbBIpQ]Well, since you asked...[/url]
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6 RespuestasSay that you had a waifu anyways
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Let's get one thing straight from the get-go. You asked. Otherwise, I wouldn't make the effort. I'm going to be brutally honest. Not to hurt you. But hopefully to Enlighten you. You said it yourself... Fear. This is obviously your psychological center. Fear, and a lack of self-confidence. This is what I see in your words. And one more important thing to add here in the mix. You are projecting all of your power on to this person. You're voluntarily handing over control of all your emotions and feelings to her. And she probably doesn't even realize it. What she wants, what she thinks, how she feels, is going to determine how you feel and react. And your intuition is already telling you the truth. This is not going to turn out the way you would like it too. There is a part of you that wants to avoid suffering. But it is already too late. You already are suffering. And you will continue to suffer day, after week, after month, after year, until you find a way to break through your fear, and lack of self-confidence, and truly learn how to stop giving someone else the power and control over your feelings and emotions. All that being said, you need to embrace your suffering. Not run from it, or try to avoid it. You will only prolong it that way. Feel it, work through it, move forward, and come out the other end. Life is suffering. That is a truth. It's not all that it is. But if you you're going to live your life, you will suffer. To believe otherwise is a fairy tale. Everyone that has ever lived has suffered. The important thing to take away from all this is; you need to continue to change and evolve... and grow. Find a way to break through your fear and lack of self-confidence. How do you do this? I do not know. I don't think anyone knows. You're simply going to have to make an effort to change and grow. That's the key right there. It is different for everyone. There is no one true way. One more important observation here. This person is not a God. They are not a deity. They are not somehow to be put on a pedestal and held in some unrealistic high regard. They are simply a human being just like all the rest of us. Nothing more, nothing less. The desires for love, and intimacy, and sex are powerful. Especially when you are young. To the point of being overwhelming. We all have a desire to love, and be loved. This is normal. But when you find someone that you are attracted to, that you like, if you can see them as a human being first and foremost, if you can make this your psychological center, as opposed to physical Beauty or sexual attractiveness. This will help you to have a more healthy relationship with someone. And finally I will leave you with this. The work and the effort should continue for the rest of your life. It should be ongoing, something that you're always striving to do well. Quality of life. Strive to be that which you desire in others. If you desire to be loved by others. Then love others in return. Comprendo? The Age of Enlightenment is already upon us. All the information in the world is now at our fingertips. Learn, grow, change, evolve, live your life as a human being. What is that? Find out. [spoiler]The Hero Path We have not even to risk the adventure alone for the heroes of all time have gone before us. The labyrinth is thoroughly known ... we have only to follow the thread of the hero path. And where we had thought to find an abomination we shall find a God. And where we had thought to slay another we shall slay ourselves. Where we had thought to travel outwards we shall come to the center of our own existence. And where we had thought to be alone we shall be with all the world. Joseph Campbell[/spoiler]
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Slit her throat and become a necrophilliac
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1 RespuestaPut everything that reminds you of her in a box and burn it
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5 RespuestasYou can't force her into doing things with you. Just ask whenever she's free and if she want's to do anything. Put her in control a bit. [spoiler]wort[/spoiler]
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Completely separate and remove all sorts of communication and thoughts of her and go to the gym
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Best Advice: [spoiler]Kidnap her and threaten to kill her unless she goes out with you.[/spoiler]
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3 RespuestasShe either really busy or she just don't want to say no so that she doesn't hurt your feelings. Only way to know for sure is don't ask her again, stop the planning if she really likes you she will come by herself, if she doesn't get over her and find another girl.
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1 RespuestaBasement. Duct tape. Hand cuffs. Never let go.
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Ask her what she's doing, then find and destroy it. Now her schedule is open. For example: she cannot go out because she is going ice skating with her family. Burn the ice rink down, and now there aren't any problems.
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7 RespuestasYou didn't ask her on the date when you asked if she'd go out with you? And then she rejects everything you suggest, even almost a month in advance? Hate to say it, but it seems she was only being nice but didn't have any intention of going out.
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Just have some great sex with her and then run off into the cold, black night before your heart can override your mind.
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Option one Lessen grip on object Option two Get over it Option three Don't sing that song
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seems like there's nothing happened to let go about, so instead of think about letting go, next time u see her, make a move, kiss her. then see what happens
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Maybe you should stop being a bitch and go out and do something about it. She doesn't want to hang out with you? Good, go find some below average cum dumpster to chill with to get her all hot and bothered.
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1 RespuestaThere will always be sadness after a break up if the other person meant something to you. Just know that there are better people out there, and to be patient. If it happens just distract yourself the best you can, it will help a little. But you will not be able to ignore the sadness completely. With time comes healing, and then you will be better.
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1 Respuesta*insert link to Let It Go*
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Only one thing to do.
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2 RespuestasUnclamp your hands