i cant even hit back. i dont hit women. edit: i cant divorce her. she will go after my pension and annuity. instead of retiring in 15 years, then ill have to keep working till im 65 edit : if my wife ends up in that show deadly women, then you guys will be a part of it edit: for those asking why i dont file charges. well i cant. she has a lot of connections with the NYPD, judges, etc i tried that before