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Editado por Spawn:
4/9/2016 2:41:08 PM
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Can I get some support/help?
I've been dealing with a friend recently and she's been suicidal. I stopped her from killing herself but she's extremely depressed and miserable. Something was wrong with her last night but she wouldn't tell me and I'm worried. But I don't want to text her bc it'll seem nosey/annoying.
It's all draining me and putting me down into my depression again
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Life is precious, and suicide is a serious issue to be handled by licensed professionals. Bungie employees and forum moderators are not trained to handle those in a suicidal crisis; please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You may also wish to contact any of the following crisis prevention resources: US: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org www.spanusa.org UK: http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Suicide/Pages/Getting-help.aspx Canada: http://suicideprevention.ca/thinking-about-suicide/find-a-crisis-centre/ International Directory: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html Military Crisis Line: Active duty, Guard and reserve service members, their families and friends stateside and in Europe have 24/7 access to the Military Crisis Line at no cost. For crisis support, those in the U.S. call 800-273-8255, then press 1. Callers in Europe dial 00800-1273-8255 or DSN 118. The toll-free service in Europe may not be available through all carriers or in all countries. Military One Source Toll Free Number: 800-342-9647 Military One Source Crisis Prevention: http://m.militaryonesource.mil/crisis-prevention
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Professional help and a lot of support is needed.
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1 RespuestaI deal with that all the time. I usually just for watch RvB or Filthy Frank
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2 RespuestasEditado por Abject Tangent: 4/9/2016 5:04:28 AMWell professional help is the best option if you can get it.
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Help her out as much as she possibly can there's still people who are there for them
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Try Xbox.com
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4 RespuestasThese things are always about girls.
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2 RespuestasText her and say you know you're being nosy but you're worried
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Editado por Legion: 4/8/2016 10:32:23 PMSevere depression is a huge medical disorder, my best bet would be to leave her be and do what you can. She need medical help of some sort, psychologist, something. If she is that far in, all you can do is support her and have her seek help.
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1 RespuestaJumper-third eye blind. Helps me when i feel down some. Or rhcp. Dani California is good. But for the love of whatever you believe in don't sing Jump by Van Halen.
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Do your best to help her out of it. Calling authorities will only make it worse afterwards. If I was suicidal and extremely depressed last thing I would want is the cops showing up at my place, I'd feel even worse afterwards.
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2 RespuestasIf you are a man -blam!- her right in the pussy sex solves pretty much everything in women If you are a women get her a boyfriend so he can -blam!- her right in the pussy sex solves pretty much everything in women
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2 RespuestasSome things are just gonna happen regardless. You just gotta let it go.
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Uh, yeah- [i]tell authorities.[/i] This is serious. Your friend's life is in danger. The police, suicide hotlines, a responsible guardian, or preferably all of them need to be notified.
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2 RespuestasCall an adult, her parents, police anything You cant take this all by yourself
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I would transport her to the land of happiness but I have crashed ;-;
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1 RespuestaBe there for her. I can tell you first hand, being alone with depression is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. Try to get her out and hang out with some friends. Just go have some fun and keep her from being alone.
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2 RespuestasWould you prefer she feel depressed or feel annoyed at you? I don't really have experience with the situation, but I imagine that being alone with her thoughts is not the best thing for her.
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1 RespuestaEditado por Siege: 4/8/2016 4:47:59 PMEven if your messaging her would somehow end up being the single-most annoying part of her day, the mere notion that there is somebody out there caring about her well-being could be nothing but a positive for her. Though I don't profess to know the details of her situation, I would recommend simply listening to her. Once again, even if the problem is something she's not ready to talk about, knowing you have someone in your corner means so much more than blanket "feel better" comments. While many people struggling against the "darkness" in their life may require a push in the right direction, take care when talking with her to avoid accidentally implying what she's doing "wrong" by telling her what to do "right." All-in-all, just be there for her. Some people do things like this for attention or manipulation, but as long as you're not being pulled down with her, there's no harm in extending yourself for someone the life of whom you could potentially save. /* As a side note, though depression and suicide are common themes within the culture (music, trends, etc.) of our angst-ridden generation, depending on the severity of one's situation, a decision must be made between removing oneself from the source of these feelings, seeking the aid of a professional, or simply viewing these trials through an objective scope and deeming them trivial across the relative spectrum of one's life. */
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6 RespuestasSympathy sex. [spoiler]Seriously though, just be good friends and if you can always be near her. Let her know you're there for her. [/spoiler]
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Speak to her parents about it. Don't chicken out either say it straight up.
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Go to her house with snacks and a movie. Just chill. You don't gotta talk, just keep her company.
