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Editado por The KuRE:
7/21/2015 10:53:18 AM
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My wife's divorcing me
So here's the thing, I have a sex addiction that I've been struggling with for years, it's gotten better, I don't go out and cheat on my wife physically, but I do talk to females just to find out if I can get them. Like I just talk to them until I find out that I can sleep with them if I wanted to, but don't actually do it. I know it's wrong and I don't do it on a regular basis. Well she found somethings and I fessed up to it and told her I have a problem, and now she's divorcing me. I don't know where to go from here...just needed to vent I guess.
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2 RespuestasIt's her fault for not giving u enough fuk
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1 Respuesta
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Lol You really believe that?
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10 RespuestasSex addiction is a cop out excuse for being unfaithful. There's no underlying problems, you're just a selfish and insecure person. You get gratification from the idea that these women would want to sleep with you; even though you have a wife whom you've both agreed to dedicated yourselves to. A majority of women see cheating in a different sense then men; sure, you say you haven't actually slept with these women, but your wife is wondering why would you even bother if you weren't planning on it? Change your view from cheating, and focus on the betrayal. You violated her trust in you, and the marriage. The idea that you'd rather invest time into other women instead of focusing on issues you two may have is a blow to any type of confidence she placed in you. [spoiler]tldr; you're not mentally ill, you're selfish.[/spoiler]
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3 RespuestasEditado por Aldrich: 7/21/2015 1:43:57 PMHope yall did up a prenup. Half could be alot, or very little. Regardless though. Half=[b]HALF[/b]
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2 RespuestasYou don't where to go from here? Go get laid...
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Nothing wrong with wanting to get some booty
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1 RespuestaMore time to play destiny
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Looks like we got a single bachelor here lady's
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9 RespuestasSex addiction is about as real as a porn addiction. People need to stop using the word addiction for everything under the sun.
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3 RespuestasEditado por AAm0untain: 7/21/2015 4:44:03 PMReading both what you've said in the original post [i]and[/i] what you've said in the comments, it seems less like an issue with your behavior and more like an issue with your relationship. Now, by no stretch of logic am I professional, but it sounds like she just doesn't trust her as much as she should. Now, you're a nice guy, so you're probably going to want to defend her, but strictly by my observations (being that even with explanation, apology, and lack of any actual sexual relations, along with not being allowed to use porn because it's 'cheating,' etc.) it doesn't seem like the type of health, trusting relationship that a marriage should be based upon. Of course, you live with her, and have significantly more information than you've posted here, but again: simply with what I've observed, This issue itself is a superficial front to a greater issue of her not trusting you as a responsible, human adult. All I can say (like everyone else) is that you should see counseling, and that I wish you the best of luck.
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2 RespuestasI've been married 7 years today. May not be as long as you were married,and in the grand scheme it's not that long at all. I have an opinion, a respectful one, which I will share. The moment you felt the need to sweet talk other women to see if you could sleep with them, your marrige was over. Even if you couldn't control it, as you say. Im no psychologist, but it seems like subconsciously, shit even consciously you were not truly happy. Honestly, it was prob just a matter of time before you went through with it and physically cheated. Most women, and some men would say you already cheated, and violated trust.
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Sex addiction....lol...in the 1960s it was called going out and getting laid.
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5 RespuestasLol "sex addiction" Stopped reading there you're a funny one OP
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5 RespuestasWhy not speak with a therapist, I was the same way & doing that helped a lot. Try abd talk with her and let her know that you want to get help & still want to be with her. Unless you don't want to, which if that's the case, just continue with the divorce
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8 RespuestasFirst, there is no such thing as a sex addict. There's meth, cocaine, morphine, but being weak isn't an addiction. Second, sometimes life hands out consequences and you have to live with them. So that's that!
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1 RespuestaAh, what's it like having an ego that large. I wonder.
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Think on the bright side. You have half your money and no house now.
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4 RespuestasYou could put it in me.
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4 RespuestasEditado por Chaos-Butler: 7/21/2015 4:03:37 PMSeek help from a psychiatrist. Sex addiction does exist just like any other addiction and it can be dealt with. Once you start getting help it gets easier and if you still want your wife it might show her you are willing to fight for her to come back. If not then at least do it to help yourself out and free yourself from an addiction. Remember Addictions don't just affect you they affect the ones you love most as well.
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The problem probably isn't your addiction but that you've been lying to your wife [i]for years. [/i]
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Sounds like you deserve it. Oh well
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6 RespuestasCan you give me some tips on how to find out if a girl wants to get with you?
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It's not an addiction it's life your body is designed to make people.
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Now it is not cheating anymore. So you got that going for ya
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1 RespuestaThat sucks dude. I wish you the best of luck with your addiction.
