I've considered myself graysexual/grayromantic ever since I discovered the existence of asexuality.
And, don't get me wrong, I still find a few people attractive each once in a while. And I don't necessarily feel opposed to sex. But, I want [i]you[/i] to tell me.
What's the point of being in a relationship?
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Before you go into a relationship, should you be completely definite that you like the person?
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There's no way to give a definite answer to this question because each person defines it different. Some people feel like they don't need to be with just one person, while others find the idea of spending their life with just one amazing. It just depends what each person wants, there is no wrong or right answer. Obviously if you're cheating on people that's wrong, if you want to have multiple partners then it's best to be upfront with the person you want to be with.
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Editado por Deus_Irae: 5/4/2015 3:04:09 AMIts too hard too explain, the girl i'm with just makes me feel complete. Not everyone will find someone like I have, but that's my point. Its supposed to be special, to most it isn't, some people go through girlfriends like my wallet loses money at the movie theater.
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Same, I'm not saying I hate relationships but I don't feel like there's a purpose in having one, the scariest thing about relationships is you either marry that person or break up and never speak again, it's just not worth it to me.
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Ever been with tour friends for a long time? And you just can't stop talking because you are having too much fun? Same thing ,except you have some extra benefits.
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Editado por Masque of Night: 5/4/2015 2:57:52 AMGood question. Why not? .... Okay, i'll be honest, i'm just too lazy to be arsed into giving a competent and/or insightful answer at the moment. If you're interested, go for it. If not, don't bother. I'm in one because i'm happy with it, and i'd say that's as good a reason as any to me.
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4 RespuestasIt's to fill the void of loneliness ... Find someone who you can get along with for awhile ... Least that's what I've heard... I'm alone and don't know much so eh
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Editado por Dabosaurous: 5/3/2015 11:49:08 PMSo people can bang someone and not have any irrational affects on their feeble/ awkward self esteem.
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4 RespuestasNobody likes you
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To continue the species. To be honest.
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1 RespuestaTo share your life with another and not go on your journey alone, to me, is a true partnership. Relationships are the first stage, the "Who is compatible with me? stage. It's trial and error to get your feet wet, and then when you know yourself (iron sharpens iron) you can know another. Unless it turns out you are in fact asexual.
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3 RespuestasNo way you aren't a troll. I know generally people are dumb as shxt but you go the extra mile with your weird extremist views etc.
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To be honest ive never had a girl friend but a reason if i think hard enough its this long explanation here-> it would be nice to have a GF because then its some one i could direct all my good feelings towards and bad but as i say that she could direct the bad and good feelings towards me i would understand all her problems as she understands me. Its like finding that one girl that could be family but not adding to your family but starting a completely new family of your own. But idunno im making these ideas up as i write. Maybe its a yin yang thing without the bad a good. Just him and her or her and him...idunno if im making sense
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In my personal experience, casual hookups have been great and relationships have been emotionally disastrous. Since the last one I've been pretty much apathetic towards the whole idea of one and putting the effort in for one. Tbh if I know I'm not going to get any from a girl I don't even make the effort to talk to them. Got school and work and shit, I just don't have the capacity to care about someone in that way right now. Or at least, I don't give myself the capacity. Being the age I am, and how society has chosen to corrupt girls these days, it's really not a bad thing. I honestly do not regularly interact with any girl that I would be content calling my girlfriend, or further more my wife. There's always "the one that got away", and even if I did still talk to her, I'm too focused on school to have a quality relationship.
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Relationships are, and I'm gonna sound cheesy, about love. It can range from doing things together, sleeping together, going out, sex, and some other stuff- but it doesn't need to involve all of these. You can be in a relationship without being sexual, and vice versa. And yes, you should know you like them before you get with them, or it might cause problems down the line.
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1 RespuestaEveryone is saying personality before looks, but let's be honest anyone with standards would realize you could and should have both. Why settle for less?
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2 RespuestasBecause people like to make themselves look cool. It's bad in schools, it's bad in the outside world, it's a bunch of people who want to be known as a thing. If you enter a relationship knowing full well that it's going to fail, then you are a -blam!-. ^tunc backwards.
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6 RespuestasNone. Everybody -blam!-ing sucks. People back stab you and betray you. But once you fall for them it's too hard to let go so you feel like constantly dying. Stay asexual, stay happy.
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4 RespuestasMy girlfriend is my best friend.
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6 RespuestasSo you can put collars on men and control them forever!:DDD[spoiler]lmao JK.XD[/spoiler]
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1 Respuestapussy thats why bruh
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2 RespuestasThis is the way I look at it. A relationships for me is just like having a best friend. [spoiler]Benefits being: companionship, emotional bonding, sex, ect[/spoiler] To answer the second question yes you should at least like the person you're dating.
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4 RespuestasYou should add that everyone should at least look up the definition of Asexual before they comment on here. I think that would probably help.
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15 RespuestasIdk... There is only one outcome of sex, and you should only have sex when married, so why don't you put the prices together.
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5 RespuestasWhy do you post here?
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5 RespuestasHahahahaha wtf you can't be asexual