I've been married for four years now. We dated for 16 year before we married. I've always played games. My wife does not. However, it's never stopped her from buying me a game or standing in line with me at a midnight release. I get to play anywhere from 1-4 hors a da depending on how fast I can do my chores, what the little ones are doing, etc. andnons til find time to work full time (nights shift) and pay plenty of attention to my wife and kids, we do things and go places together constantly. If you wife won't "let" you play....I have a problem with that. Always been a big supporter of "if she tries to change you, she Dosent really love you for who you are. She trying to love you for what she wants you to be".