Caring =/= giving money. I don’t believe you that you are depressed, as that was obviously a rhetorical device. But if you were, I would be empathetic and supportive, but would not give you money. Likewise, I care that this Youtuber struggles with depression, and have a lot of sympathy for him, but that doesn’t mean I would send him money to help if he asked (which he has not done). Not sure what you mean by “as you age.”