While I have found a few gaudianas to help out I find myself agreeing with your post. While doing tier 3 in CoO, my buddy and I helped a group of 4 get theirs done. When it came for mine they stayed, however proceeded to take the sword on mini crota and run around like idiots. I thought maybe it was just a goof. The 2nd time we downed the sword bearer I went to get the sword and another one from the group did the same thing. I ended the event needless to say. Another such time I was doing heroic strikes got put down by an enemy the 2 I was with sat in front of me danced and continued to do their thing. OK fine, I can revive. Happen another time at the boss only this time they left afterwards. I don't understand where this sense eof entitlement has come from. Maybe bungies fault who knows, but it absolutely sucks. I have sherpa'd 3 guys through the raid so far and I'm not done. I am just trying to help others now as I was helped through. Hopefully we can right this ship