How about this; as a man, don't get married. There is literally not a single benefit to you as a man to get married (maybe tax wise). But all the benefits for her. There is no reason why 2 people who claim to love each other can't stay together without a piece of paper and a ring.
Don't do it. Marriage is not what it was 50 years ago. It doesn't mean the same thing. Especially to women. To them it's a milestone, a way for them to absolve all responsibility towards the relationship and a way ruin your life and finances when she decides to divorce you , which the odds say she probably will.
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[quote]How about this; as a man, don't get married. There is literally not a single benefit to you as a man to get married (maybe tax wise). But all the benefits for her. There is no reason why 2 people who claim to love each other can't stay together without a piece of paper and a ring. Don't do it. Marriage is not what it was 50 years ago. It doesn't mean the same thing. Especially to women. To them it's a milestone, a way for them to absolve all responsibility towards the relationship and a way ruin your life and finances when she decides to divorce you , which the odds say she probably will.[/quote] Exactly this.
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And to clarify, not saying anything bad about your current gf or your relationship.