Took me awhile too, but now I love it. I have both PS4 and Xbox One and honestly I feel the Xbox One controller feels better in my hands. Of course, it's worth noting the Dualshock 4 is a superb controller, and a MUCH needed upgrade from last gen's... However, I really don't need a touchpad, huge light on the back, and a speaker on my controller anyways... I use a controller to play a game, and although it's cool to hear a spray can rattling from inside my controller while playing infamous second son, it's not needed for me.