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4/29/2017 12:33:39 AM
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Maybe you're a bit insecure judging by the fact that you get worried by your boyfriend simply associating with females, definitely a lot jealousy going on there. On the other hand, if he has a history of dishonesty then he's probably at it again.
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He does have a history of a lot of shit which I'm not going to go into detail of but yes I will say I do have trust issues because of this but if I can't know what goes on in his life how is it a really a relationship you know?
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Sure, but at this point the fact that he's adding randoms (on a game platform?) is bothering you probably more than it should. He should be able to give straight answers, which in turn should let you trust his word.
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He adds them to try and talk to them personally rather than play games with them, and I don't care if he was playing a game with them like why would I be mad about that? But if he's purposely searching for females his age to add and constantly talk to and ask for personal information I have a reason to be worried and concerned
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I think it's more like those happen to be the people he enjoyed playing with/talking to more, it's just a natural thing. I also prefer to know people on a somewhat personal level, even if I'm just playing games with them. Does it mean I'm into them? Nah.
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Well it's like I said, everyone has their own opinion. And I know the history of what he's done and it seems like it's just happening again but the fact he claims it's " not my business" is a tad bit ridiculous when we've been together for three years and he's starting to close up and hide all the things he's doing to me. For instance he goes offline to hide the people he gets in parties with. Or he blocks me so I can't see anything he posts or says; and he constantly asks for space when we hardly talk as it is
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In long term relationships, it's common for things to feel stagnant or boring, and people naturally are drawn towards socialising with other people, doing other things etc. To say that it isn't your business is a bit far fetched, but I hope you understand that you may be smothering him with the same old things (or even with affection/pleas for affection). He will either come around soon, or it's just a rerun of unfaithfulness. Good luck either way, shit does happen though.
