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9/11/2015 3:38:53 AM
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Ya know, that doesn't mean it is right to hold that grudge.
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He's doing the right thing. If you think he's hiding a grudge then you're stupid. You're probably really in love with your parents and that's obviously okay, but bad parenting deserves nothing less then what he's giving them
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Bearbeitet von Pathorix: 9/11/2015 3:54:53 AMHe isn't holding a grudge tho. He is avoiding what caused serious pain and anguish (mentally and physically) over an asinine duration of time and not allowing that sort of negativity back into his life. I'm the same way. Mind your business.
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If you knew the whole story I bet you would think differently.
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Bearbeitet von netherslayer777: 9/11/2015 3:53:12 AMNo, I wouldn't. Because I know multiple people who struggled with their parents who overcame that. And, even I once went two weeks without a word to my father because he would not apologize (maybe not long to you). If your daughter decided you were a horrible parent, regardless if it was true or not, and completely lost contact with you, wouldn't you be heartbroken?
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Bearbeitet von Brick: 9/11/2015 4:03:38 AMI would, but if I did the things to her that my parents did to me, I would only have myself to blame.. And I'm not talking about "struggling" with my parents.. This wasn't about us not seeing eye to eye.. It's about what I know now was full-fledged psychological and physical abuse. Things that would get a child taken away from the parents.
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Bearbeitet von Scova: 9/11/2015 4:21:19 AMSo your parents abused you physically and psychologically and you forgave them and talk to them? For you maybe that's okay, but for most, most would never talk to there parents again and it's not even the slightest bit wrong. It's all in how you view and value people and there is no right or wrong answer to how you value and view people. It's all subject to opinion and your opinion isn't right or wrong for anyone but you. I personally wouldn't ever talk to my parents if they abused me psychologically and physically. ever again
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They found me on Facebook and through common friends they found out I had a little girl. They want me to believe that they've "changed" and that I should just sweep it all under the rug.. After all, it [i]was[/i] in the name of God! I couldn't ever imagine returning to my childhood home even though my brother (who never endured any of the shit I did) says my room still looked like it did the day I left when he moved out..
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Did you miss the part where I said I ignore them 99% of the time?
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The question is, would you wish that upon anyone?
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Would I wish what on anyone?
