Echoing what other people have said, some of the blame does indeed lie on you. I can't shake the feeling that the reason people are assholes to you is because you're an asshole to them with some of the childish retorts I've seen you hurl at other users. You don't fight bullshit with more bullshit. Be the better person when someone resorts to ad hominem or just simply disagrees with you. Good luck anyway.