Instead of saying "earn", we need to start saying "receive". That way, people won't be getting in arguments or calling each other "scrubs". Ex: [u]Guy 1:[/u] "Yeah, I bought my Icebreaker today from Xûr". [u]Guy 2:[/u] "Nice! I earned mine from the Crucible". [u]Guy 1:[/u] *silence, feels a bit insulted* Now, let's replace "earn" with "receive"! [u]Guy 1:[/u] "Yeah, I bought my Icebreaker today from Xûr". [u]Guy 2:[/u] "Nice! I received mine from the Crucible". [u]Guy 1:[/u] *not hurt, and probably goes off to grind some Control* Problem = Solved with kindness Try also using "obtain", "got", or "collect". It works!