I wouldnt worry about it too much the servers will be dead soon with only those that made it to 32 playing, trying to make a raid with only two mates online or another lvl32 who just thinks hes too good to even run with them because they dont have enough exotic weapons. Theres a lot of players not at lvl 32 yet and the reason is simple there was never any raid finder the gear drops are poor or those that are now lvl 32 didnt want you no matter what lvl you were for any of their raids.