Stop whining and be realistic. I barely like to do normal without a 32 sword carrier and that's on my two 31 characters. Like others have said - jobs, significant others, kids, etc. I don't have time to run a raid for hours on end and not accomplish anything. I just got the helm for my warlock this morning so I will be running hard mode on my 32 warlock and Hunter. My Titan will continue to sit his ass in normal mode because I don't desire to waste anyone's time. Don't give that skill bs either. You will either be dead all the time or at the bottom of the kills list which = you probably shouldn't even be here because you are not contributing.