Not knocking what you're saying, it rings true more often than not, but to offer a different perspective, I did all my grinding before the dark below came out. All I've had to do since it dropped is raids and nightfalls, I can get these done on a Tuesday night whilst I'm tired from work (I work 45 hours a week). While I appreciate the message behind the post and I've seen where it comes from. I just wanted to let people know - in case they would be too demoralised to try it themselves - that you can get 3 max rank characters while still maintaining a job and social life, can't speak for partner because I'm currently single (careful ladies). The initial grind is real, but once you get your characters to full legendary gear, the grind is a myth.