Why do you think you should be carried on the first day of hard mode? I personally won't go in unless I am 32, but I don't care what others do. I saw a post earlier from a 31 who finished the hard raid. After looking at his records, he only had 2 kills, and 14 deaths. This why people don't want to carry you on the first day. It will change a bit over time, but while people are learning the new difficulty, can you blame them?