Find a good balance. Talk to your girl. Explain that you love playing and it's a great way for you to relax after a day at work. But don't play all day every day. Pick your days to log on like Tuesday for the refresh and Friday for xur. Or play the game around her schedule. If your home when she is not that could be your time to play. Talk to her about just playing for the first hour or two that you get he and dedicate the remainder of your time before bed to her and your fam. I understand the destiny addiction but when it comes down to it. It's just a game. Hope this helps