Listen to @IronLung6920... Just be brave and make your own decisions. And gauge your priorities... At this juncture, she is dealing you ultimatums/threatening you. And you feel worried enough to ask for advice, and fear leaving one thing or the other... Sounds like alot of stress, right? Choose the thing that makes [u]you [/u] happiest. In the end, you won't regret it as much. Btw, there's billions of women on the planet. Play this game until it goes stale if it's what you wanna do for relief after work... [spoiler]I've gone through this too...Assert yourself and see what she decides...[/spoiler]