Possible troll? I'll bite because this is a real issue for some people, especially in the MMO genre. If any person who you are in a relationship with expects you to give up a harmless, and enjoyable activity in an ultimatum which could end a long term relationship is someone you do NOT want to have in your life. It will hurt for a while when you break up, but that hurt is much less than the years of misery if you chose the alternative.