Calm down guy. I do not condone the OP's actions in any way (if the post is even true). There's no problem with balance and maintaining happiness. But the quote looks as though it's saying the center of your world should be her no matter what, even at the cost of your own happiness. Also -- if you have problems with yourself getting a wife isn't going to fix them. But at this point I think I'm just taking the quote a little too literally lol.