Dude ..manage your time properly.. You GF will not want you all the time.. fill her emotional box(not being rude) when she is happy then game on.. and when it comes to loot..well RNG .. nightfall weekly are the only time restraints anyways. (and raids, but I guess you not ready for them) I play a lot, wife and kid.. When they happy I am happy.. then I game. Also date night with GF no thoughts of touching Destiny will also help.. Commit to real life not digital dude. be well happy and imagine life without GF.. DESTINY THEN WILL TAKE YOUR JOB... I had a mate who lost his job everytime COD came out cos life got in the way..