Sounds -blam!-ing retarded, just for the record it's a common thing to spent at least some time together in an Relationship. But for her it's a good one, she s better of without u. What the -blam!-s wrong with u man? Yeah I do the grind to, but when it gets serious real life always comes first doesn't matter if the Job or Family / Girlfriend. U sound like an addicted, get help.