Who said anything about bending over for your wife? You just have to maintain happiness. That's easy for me to do. Go buy flowers once in awhile, chocolates, watch one crappy romantic comedy once in a while. Its easy. Its called learning to balance life. I'm not far from 32 myself. One more crota run for me for sure will get me a 32 full upgrade. Don't need any other characters cause I'm having fun in my rights. In the end, I won't get a divorce and lose 1/2 my stuff. I get a companion for the rest of my life. Pass on my knowledge to my offspring. And never have to be lonely. Sorry life is too tough for some, but man up. A real man takes on responsibility.